Few days past, i had an argument with one of my friend on the qualities of a "Perfect date". Ever since then, its buzzing in my head.. What makes it so perfect? is it really money that matters? or that special warm-gesture which enrolls it as the perfect date?
Imagine a 5-star hotel.. private section with lights dim.. a little candle amidst well decorated table, trying hard to illuminate the place.. a pleasant scent of the exotic flowers.. a soothing music in the background just for you two.. cool breeze.. an exquisite gift.. champagne.... he leads you to the chair and orders your favorite dish without you mentioning about it.. isn't it flattering?
Now consider this,
A chat corner.. sharing your favorite chat... chatting whole heartily without even looking at those who are staring at you as if u r some alien.. a bunch of flowers you like, decorating your hands.. a long walk in the night holding each other's hands (mentioned 'hands' just to give some clarity ;)).. cool wind playing with your hairs.. romantic songs in the background from his mobile.. isn't it breathtaking?
Two different places.. two different efforts.. but still there is something in common.......
yes! you got it right.. its that special feeling you experience.. that special attention you get.. the warmth you feel makes it a special moment.. So if you ask me.. a perfect date is when you make ur special one feel special ;)
For all those who still believe that money is "The thing" to impress.. here is a small gyan for you.. No matter how much you spend, if you dont make them feel special, then you are at loss(for spending so much :P)
